Monday 19 November 2018

WHY MARRIAGES DON'T WORK.WON'T WORK

I COME STRAIGHT TO THE PROPOSITION AND THE CONCLUSION.

A MARRIAGE IS A SYSTEM OF RECIPROCAL OBLIGATIONS SANCTIFIED BY SOCIETY AND ENFORCED BY LAW.
THAT IS WHY.

ELEMENT OF COMPULSION IS ALIEN TO PRISTINE HUMAN NATURE.THAT IS WHY IN HISTORY OF MANKIND ONLY PASSION HAS WORKED AND COMPULSION HAS NOT.LOOK AT THE GREAT DISCOVERIES,THE GREAT INVENTIONS,THE TRUE MASTERPIECES OF ART,THE GREAT SONGS......ALL WORKS OF PASSION,OF SELF WILLED DEDICATION,GENETIC EXCELLENCE.....THE MAN WHO SAID NECESSITY IS THE MOTHER OF INVENTION DID NOT HAVE THE FAINTEST IDEA OF WHAT HE WAS TALKING ABOUT.CREATIVITY IS THE MOTHER OF INVENTION.

THAT DONE AND DUSTED,TRY MY PROPOSITION IN EVERY MARITAL DISCORD .EVEN COHABITATION,(SO SWEETLY CALLED LIVE IN BY THE NOW GENERATION ) DOES NOT WORK.WHY?BECAUSE RECIPROCITY OF OBLIGATIONS KILLS IT.WHEN I GET A ''RIGHT TO EXPECT''IT SUBSTITUTES THE  NATURAL PLEASURE I HAD WHEN HE /SHE DID THE SAME FOR ME OUT OF FREE WILL AND ''SENSE OF DUTY/RESPONSIBILITY''IS THE COMPELLING FORCE THE OTHER SIDE..

WHAT ABOUT MARRIAGES THAT WORK?WONDER WHICH ONES DO?AND PRESUMING A MINISCULE MIRACULOUS PERCENTAGE DO,LOOK FOR THE OBLIGATION SYSTEM IN IT.LOOK HARD.YOU WONT FIND IT.

ARE WE THEN DESTINED/DOOMED TO BE ALONE?
BUT THEN THAT IS A SUBJECT MATTER OF SOME OTHER LITERARY MISADVENTURE OF MINE.
SO LONG.
P.S.MEANWHILE.WATCH ''MY FAIR LADY''AGAIN.

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