I usually become a
ghost to those who no longer deserve my time. I’ve never seen a point in
explaining my absence to someone who failed to appreciate my presence. You
don’t owe any explanations to those who hurt you.
-R.H.Sin
My take:beware of Stockholm syndrome of love
There comes a point in your life when you realize who
matters, who never did, who won’t anymore, and who always will. And in the
end you learn who is fake, who is true and who would risk it all for you.
Not everyone who
desires access to your life, your heart, and your spirit are worthy of the
access they seek. Protect it. Your time is your most valuable asset. By all
means give it to those whom will appreciate it. But to continuously allow
yourself to be used and suffer through other’s actions, you’re doing no one any
justice. Take care of you first so that you can take care of your purpose and be
all that you were meant to be. Then you will be able to be there for
others.
~ Maritza Alvarez
When you give
yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul
that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and
stop trying with some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll
find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept
the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them
leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on.
We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves,
“Why didn’t I do this sooner?”
‘’The more chances you give someone
the less respect they’ll start to have for you. They’ll begin to ignore the
standards that you’ve set because they’ll know another chance will always be
given. They’re not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what you
won’t walk away. They get comfortable with depending on your forgiveness. Never
let a person get comfortable disrespecting you.’’
~Trent Shelton
I read somewhere something about love and self
respect.We often humiliate ourselves in trying to prepare ourselves for the so
called"right time" or "right moment" to bid goodbye.Save
yourself because it isn't coming.There is no perfect time to decide to start
respecting yourself.If its anytime ,its now.This is my view.
Now here is what I read:
‘’If love becomes too painful, then it’s time
to let that love go and save yourself. You have to keep this in mind because
you’ll be able to find another love but not another self.’’
Combine my thought with this.Many of you may
yet save yourself...Before saving yourself becomes irrelevant.
