Life has cheated me.
I did not get the name and fame i deserved.
Life did not give me enough oppurtunities.
I deserved love but never got it.
Etc etc
Do these thoughts regularly accompany you?
If you do not have an attitude of gratitude and thankfulness,you will find yourself nestling the injustices life did...the work recognition you never got,the love you so deserved never reached you,the opportunities enjoyed by the less endowed deluded you ...etc etc
This is NEST OF NEGATIVITY.
Of course toxic positivity is equally bad.Some failures are final.So are some losses.
From my soft skill sessions i found the following nests in people who were not growing
1.Nurturing their hurts and failures.In subconscious love with their pain
2.No inward gaze
3.Wearing their wounds on their sleeves
4.Operating in a loop
These create a self perpetuating circle.
But.
Tonight ,if you have reasonable health,a roof over your head,food in your stomach ,clothes to wear and tommorow to look forward to,you are rich.Be happy.Be grateful.Be kind.
Life wasn't so giving to everyone.
Think about it.
