LITTLE TALKS ABOUT LIFE (3):AN URBAN TRAGEDY

THE GREATEST HUMAN TRAGEDY OF MODERN URBAN MIDDLE CLASS INDIA ESP.YOUNG WOMEN,IS THIS-LACK OF PERCEPTION AND PERSPECTIVE .ADD INEXPERIENCE AND IGNORANCE TO IT AND TOP IT UP WITH SOCIAL TABOOS AND UNNATURAL ROLE DEFINITIONS AND THE RECEIPE FOR A DEPRESSED AND FRUSTRATED LIFE IS READY.

SAMPLE THIS-A WELL EDUCATED WOMAN READY TO EMBARK ON A SELF FULFILLING PROFESSIONAL LIFE AND ECONOMIC INDEPENDENCE IS SHOT DOWN MY THE GREAT INDIAN HOAX CALLED “TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE”-WITHOUT THE EMPOWERMENT OF MONEY,WITHOUT SELF ACTUALIZING LIFE OBJECTIVES,AND COMPLETE IGNORANCEABOUT CATACLYSMIC CHANGES THAT “MARRIAGE”CAN BRING.

IS IT ANY WONDER THAT THE MAXIMUM NUMBER OF DEPRESSION,SUPPRESSION AND EMOTIONAL REPRESSION CASES REPORTED TO CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGISTS ARE WOMEN OF URBAN INDIA?

TAKE TABOO AREAS FIRST.WOMEN CANNOT AND DO NOT AND IN SOME CASES REFUSE TO BE EDUCATED ABOUT-

1.WHY DO MEN MARRY?

2.THE GREATEST BEDROOM TRAGEDY-THE PHYSIOLOGY AND PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX(OH GOD!I CANT,I WONT)IS IT ANY WONDER THAT BEDROOMS ARE JUST PHYSICAL RELEASE CENTERS OF FRUSTRATED MALE LIBIDO WHERE WOMEN DREAD TO ENTER AND ARE PLACES TO ENDURE AT BEST FOR THEM?

GENDER NEUTRAL ISSUES-

3.THE MEANING AND PURPOSE OF HUMAN LIFE.

4.IF HAPPINESS IS THE GOAL-HOW DO WE ENSURE LASTING HAPPINESS?

5.THERE IS BUT ONE SLAVERY-ECONOMIC.HAVE WE WORKED HARD ENOUGH TO ESCAPE THAT?

6.NEED HIERARCHY OF HUMANS-NEED FOR SELF ACTUALIZATION BEING THE TOPMOST-WHAT HAVE WE DONE TO ACHIEVE IT?

7.WHAT IS THE ESSENCE OF HUMAN LIFE?

THIS IS NOT MERE PHILOSOPHY-ITS COMMON SENSE-ARE WE SO BUSY LIVING THAT WE DO NOT EVEN WANT TO KNOW HOW TO LIVE ?

CLUE AS TO WHERE TO LOOK FOR AN ANSWER:

"YOU CAN'T LOOK AFTER OTHERS,IF YOU DON'T LOOK AFTER YOURSELF."

"IF YOU DON'T LOOK AFTER YOURSELF,NOBODY ELSE WILL."